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Old 08-11-2017, 02:01 AM
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i'm a virgin.... lol it's been a while since i could say that.
 
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I know this feeling. My ex and I made a similar decision 3 years ago. I hope it brings you peace.
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Old 08-11-2017, 07:27 PM
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I am SO EXCITED!!
 
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Hugs. I imaginr thats not an easy decision.
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Old 08-31-2017, 08:38 PM
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Update - Almost exactly a year later.

My husband has been going to therapy for depression and PTSD, and one of the major things that has changed for him has been his life goals where his family is concerned, now that shackles from childhood trauma have been loosened.

He has revealed to me he has deep regret about his vasectomy, and would like to reverse it and TTC again. He wants at LEAST 2 more children, but is openly inviting of more. (including adopting in the future like we had always planned.)

So. Here we are. Expensive lesson learned (well not quite, his consult is 9/14, but I know how much it will cost) and gearing up to TTC again.

How do *I* feel about all this? Emotional whiplash all over again. I had decided, grieved, and moved forward. My husband is so hopeful about the future, it's hard not to get any on me, but I know that the TTC road was long and difficult before, wracked with loss and failures. I'm trying to hold on to the mantra that the past doesn't dictate the future, and try to step into this with an open mind.

He's so adorable about it though. He renewed my FertFriend membership, and came home with a package from Rite Aid containing PreSeed, SoftCups, a brand new BBT, and a box of ClearBlue DigiOPKs.

So. That's where we're at. What a difference a year makes.
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Old 09-01-2017, 02:16 AM
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Update - Almost exactly a year later.

My husband has been going to therapy for depression and PTSD, and one of the major things that has changed for him has been his life goals where his family is concerned, now that shackles from childhood trauma have been loosened.

He has revealed to me he has deep regret about his vasectomy, and would like to reverse it and TTC again. He wants at LEAST 2 more children, but is openly inviting of more. (including adopting in the future like we had always planned.)

So. Here we are. Expensive lesson learned (well not quite, his consult is 9/14, but I know how much it will cost) and gearing up to TTC again.

How do *I* feel about all this? Emotional whiplash all over again. I had decided, grieved, and moved forward. My husband is so hopeful about the future, it's hard not to get any on me, but I know that the TTC road was long and difficult before, wracked with loss and failures. I'm trying to hold on to the mantra that the past doesn't dictate the future, and try to step into this with an open mind.

He's so adorable about it though. He renewed my FertFriend membership, and came home with a package from Rite Aid containing PreSeed, SoftCups, a brand new BBT, and a box of ClearBlue DigiOPKs.

So. That's where we're at. What a difference a year makes.
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Old 09-01-2017, 04:50 AM
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Here's hoping. <3
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Old 09-04-2017, 02:04 AM
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I hope things go really smoothly for you guys! So exciting!
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